Teaching Gratitude During the Holidays

The holidays bring a season of wonder, joy, and often, chaos. Between the gift lists, the gatherings, and the whirlwind of traditions, it’s easy for children (and us) to get swept up in the excitement and lose sight of gratitude. But as parents, we have a special opportunity to guide our families toward hearts of thankfulness during this busy time. 

Here are some ways to intentionally cultivate gratitude in your home this holiday season:   

Shifting the Focus to Gratitude 

The holidays naturally steer toward gifts and giving, but we can remind our children that the greatest gifts aren’t wrapped in paper and bows. Share with them the beauty of God’s blessings—our family, our faith, and the joy of giving.   

Consider starting family conversations about the things you’re grateful for. Around the dinner table or during bedtime prayers, ask everyone to share one thing they’re thankful for that day. It doesn’t have to be grand, it could be something as simple as sunny weather or a kind word from a friend. 

These small, consistent moments plant seeds of gratitude in your children’s hearts, helping them recognize God’s goodness in every corner of their lives. 

Serving Others as a Family 

There’s no better way to teach gratitude than by showing love to those in need. This holiday season, find opportunities to serve others as a family.   

• Volunteer together. Spend a day helping at a food bank, collecting toys for children, or serving meals at a shelter. 

• Give intentionally.  Let your kids choose items to donate to a family in need. Involve them in wrapping gifts or writing cards to spread cheer. 

When children see firsthand how their actions bless others, they learn the true meaning of giving, and they grow in gratitude for the blessings in their own lives.   

Reflecting Through Prayer 

Prayer is a powerful way to center your family on gratitude. Lead your children in prayers of thanksgiving, not just for the big things but also for the everyday blessings we often overlook. 

“Thank You, Lord, for our warm home, for the food on our table, and for the love we share as a family.” These simple prayers remind our children that everything we have comes from God, and they help us all slow down to savor His goodness. 

Encourage your children to include prayers of thanks in their daily routines. It’s a habit that will carry them through every season of life.   

Modeling Gratitude as Parents 

Our children learn so much by watching us, especially when it comes to gratitude. When challenges arise, like burning the pie or canceled plans, how we respond speaks volumes. 

Try responding to these moments with grace and a grateful heart: “Well, this isn’t what we planned, but I’m thankful we’re together!” Simple statements like these teach children that even when life isn’t perfect, there’s always something to be thankful for.  

Make it a habit to express your gratitude openly: “I’m so thankful for how you helped with the dishes,” or “God has been so faithful to our family this year.” These words set a tone of thankfulness in your home, inspiring your children to follow your example. 

Making This Holiday Season Meaningful 

Teaching gratitude during the holidays isn’t about adding more to your plate, it’s about shifting your focus to what truly matters. By practicing thankfulness through prayer, serving others, and reflecting on God’s blessings, you’re nurturing hearts that will carry gratitude far beyond the holiday season. 

This season keep a jar in a central place and encourage family members to write down what they’re thankful. On Christmas Eve or New Year’s Day, gather around to read the notes aloud. This tradition creates a tangible reminder of blessings. 

This Christmas, let’s help our families embrace the joy of giving, the beauty of gratitude, and the peace that comes from recognizing God’s abundant blessings. 

Heavenly Father, as we enter this special season, help us to pause and recognize the many blessings You’ve placed in our lives. Teach us to lead our families with grateful hearts and to embrace each day with thanksgiving, no matter the circumstances. Guide our children to see the beauty of gratitude and to reflect Your love in their words and actions. May our home be filled with joy, thankfulness, and a spirit of service that honors You.

In Jesus’ name, Amen.